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She might give you more of that *I've got a boyfriend* nonsense, but ignore it. Be a little pushy, but not obnoxious. The key is how ASSERTIVE you are, and whether or not you want to go after what you want in life. She looks at this trait as an Alpha trait. And she's not married to this dork, so 'til death does she part doesn't apply. Don't be afraid to go after what YOU want and deserve in this life. No one else will make that happen for you but YOU.

Remember that the only dishonorable thing about going after a woman that's already seeing someone is if your goal is to hurt the other guy. You can't wait around for the woman you want to be single, because she will often be shopping for Mr. NextGuy while she's still dating the last one.

Someone will get her... And it might as well be you, right?

Don't wait for opportunity. MAKE it. Life is too short, and you don't want to be on your deathbed saying, *Oh, man! Why didn't I do it when I had the chance?* And the next time she (or any other woman) says something that's an obvious come-on, like *I'd be your boyfriend...*, you have to be cocky right back. Say something like, *We'll see. I haven't made up my mind about you yet.* With a smile.

And though our environment has changed, the reality is that women still want a guy who takes no crap and who has a healthy sense of self-esteem. Because any guy who does not have those traits is less likely to survive. A woman is looking for a guy who can be a leader, not in need of leadership from HER.

Think about it. Deep down, do you feel like kissing up to women? Does it feel good? And when you hesitate before approaching a woman, what exactly are you fearing? “I’m going to look like an idiot?” The only reason you think you are going to look like an idiot is because you were TAUGHT that this is not “right” or socially acceptable.

But deep down, YOU know that you WANT to talk to her!!!!!!!

So the REAL QUESTION becomes….are you going to be YOURSELF, and follow YOUR GUT instinct, or are you going to follow what everyone ELSE seems to be saying?

Are you going to allow your self esteem to be ruled by YOUR values, or by THE BRAINWASHING ENVIRONMENT?

So YES, the answer is to be YOURSELF. Your REAL self.

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Sports and hobbies are also excellent dating opportunities. Are you a member of a club? Invite your next date to a club activity. Mountain biking, hiking, in-line skating, tennis, or any joint hobby can be excellent first date material. They provide an activity that you both have a common interest in. Also, there is no better way to bring out the dark side of people than competitive sports. Wouldn’t you like to see that up front? You can also impress your date with your skill, or get a few pointers from him or her.